
Working on collages at Buddy training.
6th year pupils took part in Buddy training after school on Tuesday afternoon with Partnership staff, Deborah King and Angela McDonald, DHT Mrs Mulholland and Pupil Support staff, Mrs Connor, Mrs Darroch and Mr Martin.
Following much giggling during the initial ice-breakers, the mood became more sombre as the group watched a brief video made by Glencryan and Firpark Schools about the suicide of a bullied child. This really demonstrated to the pupils the importance of the Buddying Scheme, as it provides an older friend for younger pupils, possibly a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear. Everyone was silent as the video ended.
The group then got organised into pairs to practise listening skills – the first person spoke for two minutes while their partner listened attentively. On the second occasion, the second person spoke, but their partner ignored them. This caused a fair bit of hilarity, but a lot of discomfort for the speaker. The second group noted that being ignored made them feel as if what they had to say was unimportant.
After analysing what made a good listener, the group set to work on a pile of magazines, looking for images to create a collage looking at how people are taken at face value and the dangers of judging from first impressions.
The group then worked on the importance of confidentiality, followed by a look through the Buddy Training Manual, which describes the skills and qualities of a Buddy as well as the benefits of Buddying for both 1st and 6th years.